Social Networking seems to be an area in which there is a huge gap between what people are doing, and what their organisations would like them to be doing. Take a look at David Tebbutt's blog on the IT Director web site posted this morning - it's at http://www.it-director.com/blogs/Teblog/2009/1/the_organisational_social_software_.html. As we discovered at one of the sessions in APR, getting enga…